Sharing circles, or talking circles, are a very important element to Syilx Okanagan culture.  In a circle everyone is respected as an equal and interconnected to one another.  Sharing circles are a powerful tool for building trust and community. It is rare that everyone usually shares, but in a circle, it is more welcoming and relieves pressure. 

There are no physical barriers between the participants in the circle and everyone can see everyone else. They don’t take long, and they can be used to build community, or discuss issues.

 
Protocols for Sharing Circles

1. The leader of the circle will acknowledge the traditional territory that the circle is being held on.
2. Once the circle has begun, no-one should leave or enter the circle. 
3. Members should begin by introducing themselves and providing some information about their family or background.
4. The person holding the designated sharing circle “object” is the only person speaking. All other members listen respectfully and there is no “crosstalk” in response.
5. What is shared in the circle is safe within that circle.  No-one has to worry about anything being repeated outside of the circle.
6. Any member of the circle has the right to “pass” if they are not able to contribute on that day.
7. Appropriate language and expression must be used, the main goal is respectful communication both verbally and physically.

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